I see the problem with most any JRPG is that they don't really get the whole RP part of JRPG. I don't feel as though I'm projecting myself onto a character, especially when said character has either no personality or a huge personality that's chosen for me. I don't feel the various stats systems in JRPGs I've played are well thought-out, and I can't chose how I want to play apart from a few trivial choices. I don't want to play as some pre-made character, I want to be someone I created. If it was called something else, like, say, "Turn-based tactical action game" or something, I'd be fine with it. But it's called an RPG. I expect a certain standard.
I write this, realizing the hypocrisy that I'm complaining about JRPGs on a forum dedicated to a software that allows you to make JRPGs.