What Is Your Best Memory?

Hi,

We all experience good memories but sometimes we experience the best ones! One we wish would never end but sadly it does, life always continues. If you can think back what would you say your best memory is?

My best memory is my Gran and Grampys 50th Wedding Anniversary. The whole family was invited to one giant meal and everyone was there, healthy and happy. My gran has just beaten Cancer, my grampy was alive and well and everything seemed perfect! :)

The whole family actually consists of twenty people or more, quite a big event. I remember it well and everything seemed so perfect and that is one event that will never ever leave my mind!!!

:D

I attached a picture from the event, its of my gran and grampy.

Can I count the entirety of my college career? Sure, my life after school has a ton of perks. But there is something about dorms, campus, and libraries that get me all giddy. Perhaps I am the world's most profound dork. But academia and the culture that goes with it is my cup of tea. Besides, that's where I met Goldstorm, my long time boyfriend. We met each other on the first day of Freshman year in orchestra. We were stand buddies, of course until I betrayed everyone and moved to the viola section. 

That sounds really nice. :)

Best Memory, uh? Let's see here.

14 years ago my mother underwent a surgery for her back, the doctors were pessimistic about it and they said there was little chance for her to fully recover after the operation. According to them, despite the operation she would never been able to walk in a normal way again...

You can't even imagine how my reaction was, when a day I suddenly saw her walking all by herself and without the use of crutches, that moment was so beautiful and emotional that I started to cry like a kid.

Now she still has back problems sadly (they can never be resolved fully) but she can walk all by herself and without help and this makes me so damn happy. This is my Best Memory.

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Either this or when I met my real love on this website 3 months ago, she's so far away from me but one day I'll meet her in real life and I'll have more best memories to add into my list. ;D

Hi Dalph,

That is a really good memory one I am thrilled that you were able to share with me and this brilliant community. :D

I'm glad your mums able to walk now and I hope it works between you and your love...

Confessing my feelings to my girlfriend when we were just gaming buddies.

2 years in the relationship now

That is a brilliant memory to share with us, thank you.

That must have been very scary but must have felt so good when you announced your feelings for her :)

Congratulations on still being together. 

I had a very sad and bad time, with a business disappointment.

I was actually "backstabbed" by a person I trusted for many MANY years.

I was so sad that I suddenly had constant vertigo dizziness any time my head was not straight (including lying down).

Doctor gave me some pills. Then he told me my ears were perfect but my labyrinth was disturbed a little due to stress and sadness.

Labyrinth is an organ in the head under the brain that is responsible for our... balance and stuff.

After a month I was better, still I was sad.

Keep that in mind.

Well, I have a lot of good moments to remember.

But one of the strongest was my first SURPRISE birthday party (2014).

The brains behind it was my girlfriend (we are together for 1.5 years).

A strong distraction was needed. So she got my best friend who used social engineering and lying.

I usually always trust him since he never lies to me. It was easier for him.

He made me believe we will be out for a beer.

"He had a problem to discuss with me", he said (here is the place he used social engineering to convince me).

So we are in a small rock bar with a wooden old storefront.

The bar was brand new.

BRAND NEW.

Opened a few days ago.

Nothing fishy... just a new bar he learned about and we will try it out to see if we like it.

We got our beer and he started  telling me a s#$%load of bullcrap... with an artistic convincing way.

Trouble...

What he told me was troubling my mind 100%. It was really a strong problem. Many things to think about. I was perfectly distracted.

Then, I saw my sister, her boyfriend and many friends approaching the bar.

My brain refused to recognize them...

No seriously... I just saw a big bunch of people...

Then my girlfriend entered the bar, holding a big sweet thing with candles...

She was wearing her prettiest smile.

THEN my brain accepted what I was looking.

I turned and looked in the eyes my best friend.

And I said something that equals to "You son of a..."

He replied...

"For the record... whatever I told you... it's bullcrap".

And he smiled with that grin that was meaning "I OWNED YOU DUDE".

We had the whole bar's participation on our celebration then.

Second thing that happened, a friend who I had lost contact, attended.

What a double surprise.

THAT was the event that cured me.

A very bad thing happened, I felt a great loss.

Then my FIRST surprise birthday party at my 33s!

Better late than never.

Actually, I am happy I never had a surprise party before.

It came just in time.

A big loss vs a big earning.

Tranquility.

;)

My best memory? 
Well, could be that crazy gig I played in a cafe that tried to screw us up and we got that AWESOME crowd support. Could be that gig I did opening for Das Ich. Could be that day I realized I can work full time on video games to support my family. Could be the day I finally got to meet my wife for real and starting a new life in Indonesia. 
Could be many things really... 

But I guess my best memory now is the smile and laugh of my daughter when I played an ambulancy chasing some wheeled-abomination made in duplo this morning. She was so grumpy and it suddenly cheered her up like magic. 

That and holding her in my arms for the first time. Just thinking of it makes my eyes wet. 

@Dreadshadow:

So sorry to hear how you became very sad and depressed. I will keep what you said in mind but usually nothing like that ever really helps me :|  Usually my mind starts getting overactive and sadly that's when I start to worry, this happens to me a lot and pretty much by now I expect it to happen.

I like your best memory a Lot Dreadshadow. A surprise birthday party! That sounded awesome, hope you enjoyed it :p

Love your memory man!!! :)

@Lars Ulrika:

So you have a small daughter :)  That's Great!!!

My parents used to play cars and figures with me when I was younger too :D  Great times.

One day I'd love to have children of my own. They're so cute and cuddly, but because I never go out I'll never meet anyone and because of my ASD I won't be able to adopt either :|  I find that quite upsetting actually, because I think I'd make an absolute Awesome parent...

Thanks for sharing you TWO!!! :D

Kindest regards,

Miffy.

when my eyes first crossed the eyes of the girl i'm with right now

@indinera:

That's a beautiful memory :)  Thanks for sharing it with us...

Kindest regards,

Miffy.

I don't know what is my best memory until now, but my memory is a bit weird, it was when I got sick and need to be hospitalized, that's when my mother always take care of me very great. She always stay by my side. I have a weak body and often get hospitalized, it's almost like a miracle if in one year I don't go to hospital. I know it's really nasty to be sick and get hospitalized, but the good part is, my mother give more attention to me and I love it, well you can call me a sissy boy, but it's the truth. But now I try to get strong and take care of myself so I don't need to get sick until hospitalized. The last time I get to hospital is at the last March, hopefully I can be strong until the next March without need to get hospitalized =)

@BoluBolu:

Hey mate, I am so glad that you shared that with us :) . I think its nice that you and your mum are so close - It's nice to have somebody with you through difficult and harsh times :) !

Thanks for sharing and never be upset about who or what you are ;)

Kindest regards,

Miffy.

Thanks Miffy, alright I won't be upset anymore :)
 

Good man :p

Kindest regards,

Miffy.

My best memory is a strange one.  I was walking alone in my college campus (this was around 20 years ago!), with the very cold snow crunching under my feet.  In the spotlight near the campus entertainment center, the snow sparkled like thousands of small diamonds.  The snow was absolutely beautiful in that silent night moment.